House Cleaning – Friendships, and Death and Dying!
Knowing that this day would come doesn’t make it any easier. It was only a matter of time before I would be writing about dying, death, and friendships from a house cleaner’s perspective.
You see I was very selective when choosing my cleaning clients. The idea was to have regular clients that my service would touch in a special way. All of my clients and I have developed relationships that go beyond business. Yes, I have been blessed to be able to build friendships.
Today, I received a call that one of those clients is returning to most likely bury her mother who is in hospice care. We talked about this yesterday when I was at her home for cleaning. She had just been to Florida to spend what will be her last Christmas with her mother. She related that her mother had taken a turn for the worse and was near the end.
If you have any kind of heart this might be a touching moment, for me it was more than that. My client, Robin, had become a close and trusted friend and mentor. Robin is a semi-retired marketing professional. She has pulmonary problems and cleaning can cause her condition to worsen. So my allergy reduction methods are vital for her health.
I started cleaning her home in January of 2007. Then in February I began to offer search engine optimization services. She has been a wonderful sounding board for me as I struggled with growing my own business. We travel in a lot of the same business circles. We also are members of the same business associations. Thus we have a lot of contact outside of her home.
Life could not have provided a better person to have come into my life at this time. She provides small business consulting as a business. Yet, she gave me thousands of dollars of free advice and never asked for a penny or any for free service.
I am seldom at a loss for words… But today, I find them hard to express as my heart is full of sorrow… I fill my friends sorrow and the tears are flowing copiously.
Words seem so shallow when you are attempting to honor someone for the huge impact that they have had on your life. So for now my friend… I can only say “Thank You.” You are in our prayers.
Yet, it seems so far of the mark and so inadequate. Thank you for letting me into your life. I am indeed, a blessed man… with a heavy heart!